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Writer's pictureGiselle Rouvier

Why Your Period Makes You Want to Hide (And Why That's Actually Perfect)

You know that feeling when your period arrives and suddenly your body's screaming for rest, but your calendar's screaming even louder?




Here's what nobody tells you: that urge to hide from the world isn't just your body being dramatic. It's actually an ancient, hardwired survival mechanism that modern life has labeled as "inconvenient."


Mind-blowing fact: Research shows that during menstruation, the communication between the right and left hemispheres of your brain increases significantly. Translation? You're literally more intuitive during your period. Those "random" insights you get while lying in bed with your heating pad? That's your superpower talking.


But let's get real - most of us are too busy fighting this natural rhythm to notice.


The Hidden Cost of "Pushing Through"


Remember when everyone started talking about cortisol and stress? Well, here's what they missed: your stress response actually changes throughout your cycle. During your period, your body is particularly sensitive to stress. When you force yourself to maintain the same high energy as other times of the month, you're not just feeling tired - you're actively working against your body's natural stress-protection mechanism.


Think of it like this: if your normal stress response is like a protective shield, during your period it becomes more like a sponge. Everything hits differently.


That's why:


  • Small setbacks feel like major crises

  • Your usual coffee feels like rocket fuel

  • Social interactions drain you faster

  • Your body aches in weird places


The Surprising Science Behind Your Need to Retreat


Here's something fascinating: during menstruation, your body temperature actually drops slightly. This isn't a random occurrence - it's a signal. Traditional medicine systems have known this for thousands of years, which is why they emphasize keeping warm during your period.


But the temperature drop does something else - it affects your energy production at a cellular level. Your mitochondria (the powerhouses of your cells) actually function differently at this time. No wonder you want to curl up under a blanket!


Your Period Brain: The Untapped Advantage



During your period, you experience:

  • Enhanced communication between brain hemispheres

  • Increased activity in your intuitive centers

  • Better ability to identify others' emotions

  • Heightened sensitivity to your environment


These aren't weaknesses - they're tools. But like any powerful tool, they need the right conditions to work properly.


The Rest Revolution: Working With Your Body (Not Against It)


Instead of fighting these changes, try this approach:

  1. The 90-Minute Rule Rather than forcing yourself to power through full days, work in 90-minute blocks followed by actual rest. This aligns with your body's natural ultradian rhythm and is especially effective during menstruation.

  2. Temperature Awareness

  3. Keep your lower back and abdomen warm

  4. Avoid cold drinks (room temperature is ideal)

  5. Skip the iced smoothies (yes, even your favorite green one)

  6. Consider warm foot soaks before bed

  7. The Intuition Window : Set aside 15 minutes each morning of your period for quiet reflection. This is when your intuitive hits are strongest. Keep a journal nearby - you'll be surprised what comes up.


Signs You're Getting It Right


When you start honoring your cycle's natural rhythm, you'll notice:

  • Shorter, easier periods

  • Less dramatic energy crashes

  • Clearer intuitive signals

  • Better emotional regulation all month

  • Improved stress resilience in other phases


The Bigger Picture


This isn't just about making your period more comfortable. It's about reclaiming a natural rhythm that modern life has tried to override. Every time you honor your need for rest during menstruation, you're not just helping yourself - you're part of a bigger shift in how we view women's health and cyclical living.


Your Next Steps:


  1. Track your next period's temperature patterns (use a BBT thermometer or tempdrop)

  2. Create a "minimum viable rest plan" - what's the absolute least you can do to honor your body's needs?

  3. Notice when you get your strongest intuitive hits during your cycle


Ready to dive deeper into understanding your cycle?


Join my monthly women's circles where we explore these themes in community.

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